The theme for this year’s Get A Grip project is “Don’t even tell me you don’t have time!” But, what if you don’t? What if you have so freaking much happening, so much new information coming in, so much noise and stuff and nonsense that you just don’t know where to even begin looking for 15 minutes every day to get something done?
My dear,quite simply, it is about simplification.
There are 46,000,000 ways to simplify your life according to The Google. Similarly overwhelming results come up on Pinterest. And they’re ridiculous. “Five Hundred Ways To Simplify!” Trust me, honey, five hundred of ANYTHING is not going to be simple. Ever. “A 365-Day Project for Simple Living”. Um, I don’t know anyone who isn’t overwhelmed by the thought of committing to a 365 day project.
So I did some digging. I think any list for simplifying that has more than about 15 things on it is missing the point. I found some that I really like, though. Check them out:
- Checklist: Tips To Simplify Life I love this one. It’s all about setting boundaries–storage, time, and your personal commitments. If you have lots of storage space, you’ll need lots of stuff with which to fill it. If you have lots of junk mail coming in, you’ll find yourself surrounded by it or the stuff it leads you to buy. If you’re in a group that makes you uncomfortable, you’ll spend time and energy trying to fit in with people you don’t even like. Lose it. Lose it all. Unsubscribe from every last bit of it.
- 8 Ways to Simplify Life This one focuses on the stuff that we need to do and have, and looks at it from the perspective of simplifying processes. Yes, you have a yard. Does it have to be a complicated yard? Yes, you have to eat. Does everything have to be a 3 course extravaganza every night? Yes, you need potions and pastes with which to make yourself presentable. Do you need a hair style that takes 45 minutes every day? Do and have what you need, but there’s no need to put on a show.
- 10 Tips To Start Living In The Present This one is about how we feel about where we are in our lives. It’s deep. Only one of them is about stuff, and the other nine are about you. I keep coming back to it–think beyond old solutions to problems? BOOM. He’s talking about fixing from the inside out, because what’s going on inside of your head is likely reflected in your surroundings. Ouch.
- Almost Amish: 10 Principles for a Slower, Simpler, More Sustainable Life I love me some Amish. I love the quiet community of it. I love quilts and barnraisings and buggies. I like that this article includes the idea of knowing your neighbors and sustainability by shopping locally–money is important, and keeping it close to home and spending it wisely provide such peace of mind. It also touches on God and faith, and while I’m not outwardly religious, I find great comfort in my concept of a higher power.
- 10 Ways To Simplify Life By Color Coding Those papers in your office that are just all over the place and you know what’s in there but finding any one thing involves messing all of it up? Yeah, they go here. Anything, any process can be color coded. The first time I ever saw the true genius of color coding was in the movie “Yours, Mine & Ours”–the original with Henry Fonda and Lucille Ball. Two people with 17 kids between them fall in love, and Henry Fonda comes up with a system that assigns them a bed and a bathroom schedule. Holy crap, it was genius. Color coding will revolutionize how the people in your home identify and use stuff.
BONUS: Zen Manifesto: 72 Ideas To Simplify Your Life OK OK I know, 72 ways to be simple CANNOT by definition be simple. But I like ZenHabits, and I like Leo Barbauta’s blog. And this isn’t a list of 72 things to be done, at the end of which your life will be simple. Pick five, ten things on the list that fit your life and go with them.
Simplifying your life is about setting boundaries. Anything that adds stress to your world, and this includes people, should be subject to the boundaries you set.